> CP wrote --
>> Tough going for the guys dating today & the most popular music(lyrics) isn't
> helping the situation for any age group's music.
> I wouldn't want to be a young person in today's society.
> You have a group of women who claim "assault" and "hostile environment"
> if a guy looks at them the wrong way. (And it seems "the wrong way" changes
> everyday.
Yup; true story: s guy was charged with assault, because he, as a form of
flirting, whistled at a girl & she called the cops.
The facts were laod out: it was the first & only time hje had one so (if she'd
requested he stop, yet he continued, she might feel threatened then, by his
unwilingness rto respect her clearly communicated boundaries) & I have no beef
with that, should a court find it to be such.
> In nature wildly coloured animals (feathers, markings, etc) mean they are
> dangerous and stay away. Like some groups of people today. At least some
> of them give warnings.
People(Loony lefties, as opposed to normal ones) sya it's unfair to snap-judge
a concern for young people dressed a certain way, with tattoos & piercings.
I don't act on it, but I certainly do have a bit more concern for them than for
the Mormons walking towards me in their shiny shirts & pants!
The guys who asre all about putting ntches on their bed post should be aware
that some women might just change their mind after the seduction has been
agreed to & begun, & have him charged with rape.
My advice is to get to know a lady first, so you can have a certain amount of
trust in her not to be a jackass game-player.
One comic's answer to women who complain about guys judging their skimpy/wanton
clothing was to ask if it'd be reasonable to expect help from someone in a cop
uniform? What if he was not a copy,. but jusdt wearing the uniform of one?
"Okay, I'll stipulate you're not necessarily a slut, but you are certainly
wearing the uniform of one!" (the audience, men & women alike, roared!)
>>To ALL: What;'s been your experience with changing mores relating to dating &
> relationships?
> I've been out of the dating scene for years and no intention to start
> again. So other than the above, I have no comment at this tie. :)
Same, but I remember enough. If U were to be vback in it'd be as a widow, & I'm
given tyo understand things are easier for such than for the younguns coming
out of college, or still in.
Seriously, I signed up for a dating site a ways back & I entered my info & was
directed straight to the Seniors' Page! (for 40+); I was 39!
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